Read moreReactive abuse is one of the most misunderstood parts of narcissistic abuse. Here’s what happens ā¬‡ļø šŸ‘‰ The abuser provokes you with gaslighting, lies, insults, and control. šŸ‘‰ Eventually, your nervous system hits a breaking point and you snap — yelling, crying, maybe even slamming a door. šŸ‘‰ And